It’s been three months (and a few days) since I’ve started training my girlfriend as a petgirl. I admit, to my shame, that I’ve been very poor at updating this journal. As with all major life changes, this one has proven to be very consuming in both time and energy, and has been bumpy at times.
But, I’m pleased to announce, it’s been stabilizing out, with good indications that it’s going to move past a temporary arrangement and into a permanent lifestyle.
It’s not free of modifications and adjustments as we learn about each other. Any true relationship between real, responsible humans, is about give and take.
I’ll break down an assessment of the five rules Pet currently lives by, and how she’s progressing.
“Rule #1: Naked at all times except collar and leash.”
This has been bumpy for a while, as her comfort level adjusted to being unclothed. She has some (undeserved) esteem issues that interfered with full compliance here. However, we’ve worked out a timeline that involves her wearing a bit more than nothing… granted, very little to begin with as is appropriate for a pet. We’ll be phasing out the offending garments over time as she adjusts to her status.
“Rule #2: Crawling at all times”
This proved to be difficult for her after the first week, psychologically. I’ve been working on her emotional response to it, while looking towards improving comfort with a thicker rug and some pet cushions. She’s responded well, and acclimatizing nicely.
“Rule #3: Refer to me as Sir, submissive demeanor”
This was the easiest rule for her to adjust to, and in quick order. She prefers instruction and order, so when presented with it becomes very compliant behaviorally. After a couple weeks of mistakenly referring to me by name, and then being punished for her slip-ups, she’s fallen into line nicely. Tone took longer, but she’s mastered it at this point.
“Rule #4: Eagerly serve Sir’s sexual needs”
It was a bit rough for her at times, following this one. Not the service itself, as she’s very willing to be a receptacle for my cock at all times (once she got accustomed to the idea), but the demeanor. She prefers to be the receiving partner (obviously) and as a result can be very passive in her lust. She’s learned, however, that it’s not about her lust, but instead about her pleasing me with an eager demeanor.
“Rule #5: Eating on the floor”
This was always going to be the hardest rule for her, and it’s proven intractably so. Without conceding long term defeat, I’ve admitted to myself that it’s stretching her too far beyond her current comfort level to attempt to follow this rule. She gets emotionally compromised from it, and it’s not worth breaking the whole situation over one component when I can focus on training her on the rest and return to it as she adjusts and widens her kinks.
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In return for taking Rule #5 off the plate, she’s agreed to some new rules for her life to be lived by. I’ll be adding these as new seperate posts. But I can assure you, friends, if you give the process time, and both partners are willing, you’ll find that the long-term rewards exceed your expectations.
When I started this project, I expected it to take up to five years for her to adjust into the lifestyle of a pet. At the current point, she’ll be a practiced, compliant pet in almost all ways before the end of this year alone. Leaving me with another four and a half years to streamline behaviors, expand expectations, and then break down the barrier preventing her from fully complying with Rule #5.
